How Do I Manage Money When My Income Isn't Predictable?

If your paycheck changes from week to week—or even disappears for a stretch—you know how hard it can be to plan ahead with confidence. In this episode of Financially Confident Christian, Ralph addresses the real challenges of living with income variability, whether you’re self-employed, working on commission, or navigating the gig economy. More than just a budgeting issue, inconsistent income affects mental health, relationships, and your ability to feel financially secure. Ralph offers hope and strategy to help you regain peace and clarity as you learn how to manage unpredictable income.
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You’ll hear practical, faith-based tips like building a buffer fund, basing your budget on your lowest expected income, and how to create flexible systems that adapt to the ups and downs. Ralph also dives into the spiritual side of provision, encouraging listeners to trust God—not the number on their paycheck—for peace and direction. If your financial life feels like a rollercoaster, this episode gives you both the mindset and tools to steward what you have wisely and calmly, no matter what season you're in.
Chapters:
- 00:24 - Managing Unpredictable Income
- 01:15 - Managing Irregular Income
- 04:48 - Managing Irregular Income: Strategies for Stability
- 09:14 - Managing Irregular Income: Strategies for Stability
- 10:25 - Managing Financial Challenges: Lifestyle Creep
Takeaways:
- Managing irregular income can feel like a rollercoaster ride between feast and famine, and it's stressful.
- Creating a budget tailored for unpredictable income helps bring some peace and stability to your finances.
- Building a buffer fund during good months is key to weathering the slow ones without panic.
- Focusing on essential expenses and having a plan helps you avoid the debt trap during dry spells.
- It's all about proactive management instead of just reacting to your income situation each month.
- Trust in God's provision and be diligent in saving when you have the chance to prepare for leaner times.
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00:00 - Untitled
00:24 - Managing Unpredictable Income
01:15 - Managing Irregular Income
04:48 - Managing Irregular Income: Strategies for Stability
09:14 - Managing Irregular Income: Strategies for Stability
10:25 - Managing Financial Challenges: Lifestyle Creep
Truth is some months the money flows in, then other months hits a trickle.
Speaker:At best.
Speaker:If your income is unpredictable, maybe because you're a freelancer or
Speaker:maybe you run a small business, or you work on commission, you know the
Speaker:stress of that feast or famine cycle.
Speaker:You're asking yourself, how do you budget?
Speaker:How do you pay bills, and how do you really find peace when you don't know
Speaker:exactly how much you'll make next month?
Speaker:Stick with me today 'cause I'm gonna tell you just how to do that on today's show.
Speaker:Hey there.
Speaker:Welcome back to your Daily, financially Confident Christian.
Speaker:I'm Ralph and I'm glad you're with me today.
Speaker:This show is all about helping you answer that question, how can I become
Speaker:a financially confident Christian?
Speaker:And we continue on our series today, dealing with the stress of money
Speaker:worries, stress and money worries are two things that go hand in hand.
Speaker:Yesterday we started talking about income.
Speaker:We, We made a decision to assess just where we were, and then we
Speaker:started talking about some potential opportunities to grow our income.
Speaker:And this is a big area of focus for many people.
Speaker:Well, today we're gonna move into a specific income challenge, and this
Speaker:is one that's faced by a great deal of people in our audience, especially
Speaker:those people who find themselves being small business owners and those who
Speaker:have those variable income roles.
Speaker:Things like freelancers and people who maybe who are doing sales professionals or
Speaker:gig workers or side hustle entrepreneurs.
Speaker:And you ask yourself this very difficult question.
Speaker:How can I effectively manage money when my income isn't the same every month?
Speaker:And the truth is, this does bring a unique set of stresses.
Speaker:Now listen, you know the drill, if you have irregular income, one month is great.
Speaker:Maybe you landed a big client, or you had this great month for sales
Speaker:and you feel this sense of relief.
Speaker:Maybe you even feel a little flush, if you will.
Speaker:maybe you tend to spend a bit more than you really should that month, but then
Speaker:all of a sudden the next month is slow.
Speaker:And guess what?
Speaker:Those bills are still due, but the income, it's just not there.
Speaker:So what do you do?
Speaker:You dip into savings, and that's assuming that you have some.
Speaker:And all of a sudden you start to feel this stress again about covering everything.
Speaker:And maybe you postpone paying off that debt.
Speaker:Maybe you're working actively to pay off your debt, or maybe you're
Speaker:working actively to save money.
Speaker:And when you have that income, that's not what you expected.
Speaker:you postpone paying off that debt or you postpone savings for goals
Speaker:and this unpredictable swing.
Speaker:And it's really a swing between feast and famine.
Speaker:And I get it.
Speaker:I've lived that myself in my business, and it's a major struggle.
Speaker:And here's a simple truth.
Speaker:It makes traditional monthly budgeting feel almost impossible.
Speaker:And what I think it really does, it leads us to be reactive in our spending
Speaker:instead of being planned in our spending.
Speaker:And it truly does create constant uncertainty and anxiety because
Speaker:you are always wondering if you're gonna have enough to meet your
Speaker:obligations and meet them consistently.
Speaker:A lot of people share with me, they say, Ralph feels like I can never
Speaker:get ahead because any progress I made in a good month will all of a sudden
Speaker:Ralph gets wiped out in a slow month.
Speaker:Well, here's the thing you need to understand.
Speaker:Managing irregular income does require a different approach.
Speaker:If you've got a steady paycheck, if you get paid every week or every other week,
Speaker:it's a little bit easier to manage that.
Speaker:If you don't have that income, if you've got irregular income, that does
Speaker:truly demand extra discipline because during the good times, you've gotta
Speaker:be prepared for those lean times.
Speaker:I call this forward thinking stewardship.
Speaker:It's actually talked about in the Bible.
Speaker:Think about the story of Joseph in Genesis chapter 41.
Speaker:I'm not gonna read that story today.
Speaker:I'm gonna encourage you to do that.
Speaker:But he didn't just enjoy the seven years of that abundant harvest.
Speaker:During that time, Joseph saved and he stored up grain
Speaker:during those abundance years.
Speaker:'cause he knew he needed to prepare for those seven years of famine that followed.
Speaker:See this was a simple act of saving from a place of plenty
Speaker:to prepare for that scarcity.
Speaker:And it's a powerful biblical model for managing those unpredictable resources.
Speaker:every day I talk on the show about being diligent and being
Speaker:diligent in our stewardship.
Speaker:So yes, we have to trust God's provision, not just in the moment,
Speaker:but over all of our different seasons.
Speaker:And we've gotta learn to use that abundance he provides today to
Speaker:create stability for tomorrow.
Speaker:So you might be asking, what can we do?
Speaker:How do we bring stability and peace to your finances when your
Speaker:income is anything but stable?
Speaker:Well, I've got a solution today, and I'm gonna tell you to do this.
Speaker:I think the best thing to do is implement a budget and saving
Speaker:strategy design specifically for those of you who find yourself in
Speaker:that irregular income situation.
Speaker:Focus in on building what I'm gonna call a consistent buffer.
Speaker:And it's a buffer to smooth out the highs and lows.
Speaker:This approach, if you're able to do it, is gonna Shift you from reacting to your
Speaker:income and that income volatility to really being proactive in managing it.
Speaker:Okay, so here's your one action step for today, specifically laser
Speaker:focused on managing irregular income.
Speaker:The first thing I want you to do, and this one is crucial, you need to
Speaker:go calculate your average essential expenses, go back to your budget.
Speaker:Go back to that financial snapshot that we created.
Speaker:Identify your absolute essential monthly expenses.
Speaker:These might be things like housing or maybe the minimum utility costs you gotta
Speaker:eat, so you gotta put basic food on there.
Speaker:If you've got debts, you need to at least be making the minimum
Speaker:debt payments, and don't forget, include transportation costs.
Speaker:Then I want you to calculate that total amount needed each month, and
Speaker:that is just to cover the basics.
Speaker:I'm gonna call this your baseline budget, so you got that number in mind.
Speaker:The next thing you need to do is set what I call a buffer fund goal.
Speaker:Your primary goal is to build a separate savings account.
Speaker:Now, this is not your emergency savings account, but this is designed to
Speaker:cover maybe one, two, or three months of those average essential expenses.
Speaker:Again, this isn't your emergency fund.
Speaker:It can overlap, that's fine.
Speaker:But this buffer is specifically smoothing out those income dips.
Speaker:I want you to write down your target amount.
Speaker:For example, maybe for you, you want two times your average essential
Speaker:expenses, so write that down.
Speaker:This way you know how much your average expenses are per month, and you're
Speaker:saying to me, Ralph, I wanna have at least two months of those set aside.
Speaker:Then what I want you to do is during those months, when you have good months,
Speaker:you know you've had a good month of sales, or you landed that contract or
Speaker:landed that client, that maybe is going to give you a big upfront payment.
Speaker:You gotta building that buffer in those high income months.
Speaker:Aggressively fund it.
Speaker:Hey, if you've got an extra month, don't think to yourself,
Speaker:Hey, and I've done this.
Speaker:You land that big client, Hey, let's go out to eat every night this week.
Speaker:Or Let's go buy that watch we wanted, or that, that electronic
Speaker:that we couldn't live without.
Speaker:I want you to instead think about aggressively funding that buffer
Speaker:fund until you reach that goal.
Speaker:Of course, you're still gonna pay your essential bills, but then
Speaker:send any extra money directly to that buffer savings fund.
Speaker:And the reason you're doing that is the final step here.
Speaker:When you have those low income months, that's when you can go grab
Speaker:that money from that buffer fund to cover that shortfall in your, you
Speaker:know, in your essential expenses.
Speaker:What does this do?
Speaker:It prevents you from going into debt.
Speaker:We don't wanna find ourselves constantly going into debt when
Speaker:we have these low income months.
Speaker:It also completely reduces or eliminates that stress of covering the bases.
Speaker:You're not worried about, am I gonna have a roof over my head?
Speaker:Am I gonna be able to eat and put gasoline in the car?
Speaker:It also helps you get past that feast or famine stress cycle.
Speaker:It creates a beautiful financial cushion that will allow you to pay your essential
Speaker:bills consistently, regardless of how much income came in in that specific month.
Speaker:And it really does help replace that uncertainty of that unpredictable
Speaker:income because you've got a, you've got a stable planned buffer that can
Speaker:bring you significant peace of mind.
Speaker:Well, let's pray together now.
Speaker:Father, God, thank you for providing for us even when our income isn't predictable.
Speaker:And Lord, we confess that stress and anxiety come from that feast or
Speaker:famine cycle really does bother us.
Speaker:So, Lord, we would ask that you grant us wisdom and grant us
Speaker:discipline to manage our irregular income and manage it effectively.
Speaker:Help us to save diligently during those times of abundance that you
Speaker:give us, that way we're prepared for those times of scarcity.
Speaker:Grant us peace during those low income periods when we might feel
Speaker:like we can't trust, and just give us trust in your consistent provision
Speaker:through the many seasons of our lives.
Speaker:Guide us in being wise stewards of every dollar that you send our
Speaker:way, regardless of when it arrives.
Speaker:And we ask this in confidence.
Speaker:In Jesus' name, Amen.
Speaker:Now listen to me.
Speaker:Managing irregular income takes intentionality and it takes discipline.
Speaker:It's, it's not simple, it's not easy.
Speaker:But if you add intentionality and you add discipline and implement that buffer
Speaker:strategy we talked about today, you can dramatically reduce the stress of that
Speaker:unpredictability because guess what?
Speaker:You're taking control of your financial flow and you're not just reacting.
Speaker:Now if managing irregular income is a challenge that you face, maybe
Speaker:you know somebody else that's facing it too, and I'm gonna encourage
Speaker:you to share the show and share this particular episode with them.
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Speaker:Now tomorrow we're gonna be talking about lifestyle creep.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:How spending often increases as income increases.
Speaker:And we're gonna talk specifically about how to avoid that trap to protect
Speaker:the progress that you're making.
Speaker:You don't wanna miss it.
Speaker:So make sure you join me tomorrow.
Speaker:Now, let's all go out there and be financially confident.
Speaker:Christians, you can do this.
Speaker:I have confidence in you.
Speaker:Have confidence in yourself.
Speaker:Stay financially savvy.
Speaker:God bless you, and you have a great day today.