May 31, 2025

My Spending Data is Ready - Now What Do I Do With It?

My Spending Data is Ready - Now What Do I Do With It?

If you’ve taken the bold step of tracking your spending—whether for a day or a full week—this episode is your next move. Ralph walks you through what to actually do with those numbers that are now staring back at you. From confronting surprise expenses to identifying spending patterns that don’t match your values, this episode is all about turning raw data into practical insight. It’s time to make informed, grace-filled decisions now that your spending data is ready.

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In this follow-up to the intentional spending plan episode, Ralph explains how your data becomes one of your most helpful financial “advisors.” You’ll learn how to compare what you planned to spend versus what you actually spent, look for meaningful patterns, and reflect with purpose, not shame. It’s not about fixing everything at once; it’s about asking, “What is this teaching me about my habits?” Tune in and discover how to move from feeling overwhelmed to feeling empowered—one honest review at a time.

Chapters:

  • 00:16 - Turning Data into Direction
  • 00:57 - Recognizing Your Financial Reality
  • 02:49 - Building a Habit of Focus
  • 04:11 - Introduction to Financial Insights and Resources
  • 04:54 - Empowering Financial Confidence through Prayer
  • 06:00 - Financial Guidance and Responsibilities

Takeaways:

  • Tracking your spending is a brave first step towards financial clarity and peace.
  • Your spending data acts as a financial advisor, helping you understand your habits better.
  • Don't let the numbers overwhelm you; they're just reflections of your choices and values.
  • Reflecting on your spending should be done with grace, without blame or shame.
  • Use this clarity to invite God into your financial journey and transform fear into faith.
  • Building financial confidence takes time; observe your spending habits and learn from them.

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00:00 - Untitled

00:57 - Untitled

01:14 - Turning Data into Direction

01:55 - Recognizing Your Financial Reality

03:46 - Building a Habit of Focus

05:09 - Introduction to Financial Insights and Resources

05:51 - Empowering Financial Confidence through Prayer

06:57 - Financial Guidance and Responsibilities

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Yesterday we talked about tracking your spending and if you took that

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step, if you have followed through, today is the moment that really matters.

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'cause now you're staring at some numbers and maybe you're thinking,

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okay Ralph, I've got this list, but what do I do with this now?

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Well, let's talk about how to turn that data into direction.

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That's what we're gonna cover on today's show.

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Hey there friend.

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Welcome back to another episode of Financially Confident Christian.

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I'm Ralph, and if no one's told you yet today, I am proud of you.

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Seriously, I'm proud of you.

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If you tracked your spending yesterday, you did something most people just avoid.

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You faced your reality and that's a brave step.

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And now we're gonna take it to the next level together.

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'cause That list of transactions, it's not just numbers; It's a mirror,

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and today I wanna help you look at it with wisdom and not worry.

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Now I know how this can feel.

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You open up your app or your notebook and all those transactions are staring

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back at you Fast food here, online purchase is there, and suddenly you

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feel this wave of embarrassment.

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Or maybe for you, you feel this wave of regret.

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I remember the first time I reviewed my spending after tracking it for just a

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week, it hit me like a ton of bricks.

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I was spending money on things that didn't even reflect what I said I

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valued, and I thought to myself, how did I not see this before?

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But let me tell you what you're seeing now.

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That's not a failure.

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Hear me on that.

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This is not a failure, it's clarity.

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Friend.

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Clarity is the beginning of freedom.

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Think of it this way, tracking is the flashlight.

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Reviewing it is what shows you what's in the room.

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Look at the book of Proverbs, chapter 15, verse 22.

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It says, this plans fail for lack of counsel, but with

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many advisors, they succeed.

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What a great Bible verse.

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And you know what Your spending data is one of those advisors.

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It's not here to condemn you.

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but it is here to counsel you.

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Because it helps you see the gaps.

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And then when you invite God into that process, you turn that fear into

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faith and that shame into strategy.

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So here's your action step for today, and I want you to keep it simple.

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You don't have to solve everything at once.

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Step one is to set aside about 15 to 20 minutes today, just like yesterday,

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you're building a habit of focus.

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Step two.

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I want you to bring your budget plan from a few days ago and your

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track spending from yesterday.

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Now, I know you've only got one day's worth of data, but this is a start.

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Step three, I want you to compare where you plan to spend

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versus where you actually spent.

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Now, I want you to group your spending into those same categories that you

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did in that intentional spending plan, like food or gas or giving or personal.

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And then the step four, I want you to just look for one or two

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key insights, just one or two.

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Did anything surprise you?

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Where did you go over that intentional spending plan?

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where were you under it?

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And listen, don't try to fix it all.

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Just observe and listen.

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I know this is only one day's worth of data, but this is something I want

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you to do each week and each month.

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And then finally, step five, I just want you to reflect with grace.

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Ask yourself this.

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What's this teaching me about my habits?

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Just that simple question.

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What's this teaching me about my habits?

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No blame, no shame.

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This step is all about simply understanding and

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friend that understanding.

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That's where confidence starts.

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Now, before we go any further, I wanna give you something to help

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as we walk this past together.

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As we continue this series on money stress, I wanna bless the first a

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hundred listeners who take action.

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I'm gonna encourage you to go to financially confident

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christian.com/master, and I'm gonna give you a free copy of my book.

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It's called Mastering Your Finances.

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Now, this book is just 47 pages.

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It is packed with wisdom.

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It's packed with encouragement, and it's packed with just simple next steps.

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And best of all, it's completely free.

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This could be the breakthrough tool that you've been praying for.

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So don't wait.

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Go to financially confident christian.com/master and

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grab your copy today.

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Let's pray together.

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Father God, thank you for clarity.

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Lord, thank you for the courage to look at our spending with

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honesty, and look at it with hope.

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And Lord, help us not to feel discouraged, It's so easy to feel that way,

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Lord, but help us to feel empowered.

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Lord, give us eyes to see those patterns, ears to hear your counsel,

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and most of all, Lord hearts, to align our finances with your purpose.

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Lord, may we become wise stewards one step at a time, and we ask this in confidence.

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In Jesus name, Amen.

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Remember, don't let those numbers scare you.

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They're just a reflection.

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And today you get to respond, not react.

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So keep going friend.

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You are becoming more financially confident every single day.

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So let's go out there and be financially confident.

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Christians, you can do this.

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I have confidence in you.

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Have confidence in yourself.

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Stay financially savvy.

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God bless you, and I'll see you tomorrow.

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Have a great day today.

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