The Digital Divide: Connecting in a Hyper-Connected Yet Isolated World

Feeling lost in today's headlines, seeking God's truth for our chaotic culture. Welcome to Truth Unveiled with Ralph. We'll cut through the noise guiding you to biblical discernment for your faith, your finances and your life.Now here's Ralph Estep Jr. Hey, welcome, friend, to Truth Unveiled with Ralph. This is the new podcast from the Ask Ralph Media Network and it is truly an honor to be with you today.My main goal with this new show is to take everyday headlines. You know that stuff that makes you want to scratch your head or even ties your stomach up in knots.I just want to take those things and simply lay them next to the timeless, comforting and incredibly powerful truth of God's word. We're not just here to learn stuff. Yes, we're going to learn stuff.But we're here to figure things out, to build up our faith and to find a real kind of freedom that lasts for forever. Not just freedom in our bank accounts, but deep down in our hearts.And today, I just want to talk about something I know is probably hitting close to home for many of you as you're listening right now, the digital divide. And I picked that title Intentional because there's this divide.Just start by thinking about your phone for a minute, or maybe your computer or maybe your tablet. Maybe it's sitting right there with you. It's right there, isn't it? It's always within reach, isn't it?And we're always told that, hey, we're more connected than ever. And the technology, yes, it's truly amazing. The sheer volume of information and the ability to interact at our fingertips. It is amazing.And truth is, you can instantly see what friends had for lunch.Everybody shares all kinds of stuff out there where what distant relatives are thinking you can share, what global events are unfolding only with just a few taps on all of these devices. When I was preparing for today, I thought it's kind of like this never ending party where everybody's invited and you're always just one tap away.Sounds great, doesn't it? But let me ask you this, and I want you to be honest. How often do you feel truly deeply connected through all of that? The digital rules?Hey, you more connected than ever, Ralph. But ask yourself honestly, how often do you feel truly deeply connected through all of that?When you scroll, do you feel closer to somebody if you're like me and we're being honest with each other? Or do you often feel this chilling, quiet sense of isolation?And maybe, just maybe, you found yourself scrolling through dozens, maybe even hundreds of posts every Day. And as you look at them, you see these seemingly perfect lives. I call it the highlight reel. Those spotless homes. Oh, boy, look at that house.It's beautiful. Fresh coat of paint, manicured lawn, great pool in the backyard.Or maybe you see these incredible vacations, cities, destinations you've only dreamed of. You see these huge successes, these people making money hand over fist. And they always have these great smiling faces, just curated moments of joy.And then it come to a point like, I've had enough. I'm going to put my phone down. And if you're being honest with yourself, I know for me, I'm left with this hollow feeling.Just went through all this stuff, all these beautiful vacations and homes and all this stuff that I could only dream of. But I'm just left with this hollow feeling. A quiet sense of less than, maybe even a little bit of left out. And a deep, deep sense of being alone.Even with what they call thousands of friends or thousands of followers online, that ache of comparison can be real. Can it? And if we listen, it withers some insidious lies. Hey, everyone else has it all together. Everyone else is truly happy. Look at all those smiles.Look at all that great things that are going on. The highlight reel. You start asking yourself, what's wrong with me? What's wrong with me? Am I missing out? Am I not enough?And maybe, just maybe, you've noticed yourself just glued to that screen. You're there, hour after hour, day after day, night after night. You're scrolling, you're watching, you're clicking, you're. You're quickly refreshing.You got to see what's next. And you tell yourself, hey, hey, just five more minutes. Just five more minutes. I'll be good. Five more minutes.But then those five minutes, they turn into 30 minutes. And then at 30 minutes, turns into an hour, then two. And now the whole time, you think, you know, I gotta stop this. I got other stuff to do.I want to go spend time with my wife. I want to go spend time with my husband. I want to go spend time with my family. You know, you should stop. Your. Your eyes are tired.They're bloodshot, they're aching. Your neck is starting to hurt from being leaned over in your device. That digital connection, it's like a magnet.It's just pulling you in and pulling you in. And then you blink. And suddenly the day is gone. The house is quiet. And you come to a startling realization.You haven't actually talked to anyone face to face. You haven't truly looked into someone's Eyes or deeply listens to a real voice all day long. Well, sure, you saw what they're up to.So what's going on in their Facebook or their TikTok or their YouTube or whatever else they're looking at? Instagram. But did you truly connect with them? Did you hear that nuance in their voice?Did you see that real emotion in their eyes besides that stupid smile? Did you share a genuine moment? Or was it all just a blur of digital noise?I use that word intentionally because in my view, it's just a blur of digital noise. See, this digital world, with its endless notifications and beautiful algorithms is designed to keep us engaged. It's designed to addict us to this.And yes, it promises a true connection. It promises us true belonging. And it promises this constant stimulation. It tells us a lie. It tells us we're building this vast network.We're expanding our reach, we're staying informed. We're making friends all over the globe. But for so many of us, for millions of us, it's just silently and subtly delivering anxiety.It's delivering distraction, it's delivering terrible comparison, and it's delivering a deep, aching loneliness. It creates this word I've created today, it's digital divide.A huge growing gap between how connected we seem to be online we seem to be online and how truly connected we really are in our physical lives. Or honestly, we're not connected anymore in our physical lives. It's like we're building these huge digital mansions. Just picture people in your own.Full of virtual war rooms, full of virtual people. But deep down, deep down, in the quiet of our own homes, we're living inside those big houses all by ourselves.And we're constantly comparing our messy, beautiful, real life journey to everyone else's. Filtered, posed, perfect online highlight reel. The highlight reel of the day.If you've been on social media at all, you know exactly what I'm talking about. And that right there is exhausting. It's overwhelming. And ultimately, it just leaves us hopelessly empty.And that deep connection that we crave, that sense of belonging, it can't be found in pixels. It doesn't exist in the digital noise. And the truth is that digital noise is going to drown out signals that really matter.Things like the voice of God, the gentle nudges of the Holy Spirit, the needs of your family, the quiet moments of peace. It steals your focus, it steals your precious time, and it steals even our most valuable asset, our inner peace. Are you feeling that right now?And listen, it can even trick us into thinking we have These deep relationships. Oh, I've got 300 Facebook friends, I've got 2,000 YouTube followers, I got 3,500 people on Instagram. It's a trick.But in truth, all we really have is just life, what I'll call casual acquaintances or curated images that demand our performance. Yeah, because see, we want to perform just like those other people in that high leg realm, not our authenticity.And see, this isn't just about feeling a bit down. That's part of it.But this has very real impacts on our mental health, the health of our families, the quality of our friendships, and yes, even our financial decisions. But let me ask you, does God's Word, written thousands of years ago, offer any wisdom on true connection? Does it offer any wisdom on real community?Does it offer any wisdom on how to live a life full of a world obsessed with screens and fleeting interactions? Ask yourself, does the ancient truth of the Bible have anything to say to your modern struggle with digital overwhelm?I'm going to tell you right now, my friend, you can breathe a sigh of relief because you bet it does.And it's a truth that cuts right through the digital noise and points us to genuine, lasting, life giving connection that will truly satisfy your soul. So get your Bible.Let's open God's word together, friend, and hear what he says about how we're truly meant to connect with each other and how we're meant to live in wisdom in every area of our lives. First, let's start with the book of Hebrews, chapter 10, verses 24 and 25. This is what the Bible tells us.And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works. Not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another. And all the more as you see the day drawing near. See that?Think about that for a moment. Not neglecting to meet together. See, this isn't just about showing up in the same building. That's part of it.But it's actively stirring each other up, encouraging each other. It's about being present in person, in real life, not some nonsense digital noise. It's about doing good things together.Think about for a moment, just think about the warmth you feel from a genuine hug. That genuine hug. You can't get that from the digital world. Or maybe the comfort of a friend's hand on your shoulder.You know, just pat on your shoulder. It's going to be all right. Even the honest laughter shared over a meal with your friends, with actual people.See, our digital world feeds what might show us what others are doing. Sure, it might show us that, but it doesn't allow us to do it together in the same way, to truly stir each other up to love and to good works.Because the truth is, this kind of interaction requires precious time.It requires shared physical space in the same room, in the same same place with people, and focused attention that a quick scroll can never, ever replicate. It's about genuine accountability and mutual support. Well, now let's continue on our Bible. Let's look at the book of Galatians, chapter 6, verse 2.Because we find this simple but hugely powerful instruction that takes community to a much deeper level, a level where true burdens are lifted. This is quick. But, man, it is so compelling. It says this. It says, bear one another's burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ.Think about that for a second. Bear one another's burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ.See, when you're going through a tough time, you've been through tough times, haven't you? That financial struggle.I'm not sure where the money's going to come for next month's mortgage or next month's rent or that car payment or that vacation we've been wanting to take, that emergency fund we've been trying to set aside for. Maybe you're going through a tough family issue.Mom's in the nursing home because of dementia or getting ready to lose Aunt Joan because she's just not doing well. That feeling of isolation. Let me just ask you right now, can you truly bear someone's burden by liking their post? Oh, I just saw it on Facebook.Such and such is going through this with her, with her sister. I'm bearing their burden, Ralph. I'm liking their post. Nonsense. You can't bear someone's burden by liking their post. Oh, here's a good one.Can you carry their weight with a quick emoji? I got a hug for you. I got a hug emoji for you. That's useless. See, bearing burdens means showing up in person. It means a listening ear on the phone.Or even better, I'll take the phone. But even better in person. That comforting hug, that shared cup of coffee where real tears might fall. Real tears, real connection.And where prayers are just silently whispered. Maybe sometimes it's that difficult, honest conversation where you speak truth and love to somebody who's dealing with something difficult.Or maybe even sharing a financial load or helping with a physical task, like moving or cooking a meal for somebody who's struggling, somebody who's sick. But it demands presence it demands vulnerability, it demands deep empathy and a selfless effort that pixels just can't deliver.See, it's a two way street in life where you give and you receive. That's what it's all about, a two way street, both in person, in that sacred space of shared humanity.Now let's look at Jesus teaching through Paul in the book of Philippians, chapter 2, verses 3 or 4. It encourages us to look beyond ourselves in our interactions. And this is a radical counter to that selfie culture. And I love what this says.Again, Philippians chapter 2, verses 3 and 4. Do nothing from selfless ambition or conceit, but in humility, count others more significant than yourselves.Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. That's powerful. Selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility.What is the scripture telling us to act in humility, Counting others more significant than ourselves, looking not at your own interest, but also to the interest of others. See, this is a deep dive into what truly good connection, what truly true connection looks like in God's eyes. It's about putting others first.I remember when I was taking the Dale Carnegie courses, the main things we taught is it's taken a genuine interest in others. When's the last time you took a genuine interest in somebody else?Or we can compare it to the digital world where often subtly but powerfully encourages us to. Here's what we need to do. Put ourselves first. Create that perfect image, that beautiful selfie.We gotta seek likes, we gotta seek validation to build our personal brand. I hear that so many times I just want to snap to focus on our own profile and what we get out of it. But that's not real.Real biblical connection turns that on its head. It flips it over. It asks us to look outward, not inward, outward.To generally see what the person in front of us, or the one who truly needs our undivided attention and care, look outward. See that person in front of us, who needs us, who needs our attention, who needs our care.That right there is a selfless act of love, not a self serving one. And that right there is genuine humility. That's what the scripture is compelling us to do.Let's look at Proverbs 18:1, because it gives us a stark timeless warning about the dangerous consequences of isolating ourselves. Yes, the Bible warned us about this thousands of years ago. Again, Proverbs chapter 18, verse 1. Whoever isolates himself, seeks his own desire.He rages against all sound judgment.See that proverb right There written thousands of years before the Internet, Internet wasn't even considered, but it perfectly describes the danger of our digital age. See, when we choose to isolate ourselves in our online bubbles, we create these online bubbles. Or maybe we connect on our own terms.Yeah, I'm going to connect, but I'm going to do it on my phone, I'm going to do it on my tablet or computer. My own terms only consuming what we want to consume, only engaging with people who agree with us.Yeah, we're going to be a member of that team, the agree with me team.But if you thought for a minute when you do that, what we actually do, we actually push away wisdom, we push away a healthy challenge and we push away real growth producing connections.And this verse is a powerful reminder that we were made for genuine, messy, life giving community, not just digital echoes or filtered versions of reality. See, this isn't just about feeling good. It's so much bigger than that. It's about our spiritual and mental health.Now let's take a few minutes and look at a few more scriptures that speak directly to how we engage with the world around us, including our digital world. Again, the digital world talked about thousands of years ago and how do we guard our hearts and use our time?Look at the book of Romans, chapter 12, verse 2. I love the book of Romans. And it powerfully states this.Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. Do not be conformed, friend. The digital world is a powerful force of conformity.It makes us all the same because it bombards us with trends, it bombards us with opinions, and it bombards us with values that often go directly against God's words. Yes, Ralph said it.The Internet, the digital world is a powerful force of conformity that's bombarding us with trends, opinions and values that go directly against God's word.And this verse right there calls us to actively resist that shaping, to not let our minds be molded by what we see online, but instead let our minds be renewed by God's truth so we can clearly see what's good and pleasing in his eyes. So let me ask you this, and you gotta be honest. And when I was preparing today, this one, this one hurt a little bit.Ask yourself this, how much of our screen time is conforming our minds to the world's ways, Those opinions, those things that contradict scripture rather than transforming them by His Word? I want to throw Something at you that I came up with for today. Are you letting the world scroll its way into your soul?Just one scroll at a time and the world's just scrolling its way right into your soul. Continue. Look at the book of Ephesians, chapter 5, verses 15 to 16 gives us a practical, urgent command about our time, our most precious thing.Listen, you can have a lot of things, but time, that's your most precious, non renewable resource. What does scripture say? Look carefully then how you walk. Not as unwise, but as wise, making the best use of your time. Why? Because the days are evil.Now that's pretty bold. What's it telling us? Look carefully how you walk. Not as unwise, but as wise, making the best use of your time. What did I say a few minutes ago?Your time. Precious, non renewable resource. Because the days are evil. Take it to the next level. Because here's the truth.Our time is a gift from God, a very limited resource. Ask yourself this. How are we making the best use of that time?When we lost in endless scrolling, when we're watching things that don't build us up, or engaging in pointless online arguments that all they do is drain our spirit, we're arguing about stuff that doesn't matter. How much time are we wasting? God said to you, it's draining you. It's pointless. What did the scripture say? Because the days are evil.Is that best, using your time? See wisdom in a digital age. True wisdom in a digital age means being incredibly intentional with every single minute. And hear me on this.Especially our digital minutes. Especially our digital minutes. It means being a steward of time, not a slave to the scroll. Are you a slave to the scroll?Have you become a slave to the scroll? That is a challenging question, but ask yourself again. Have I become a slave to the scroll? I'm guilty of that. Finally, let's talk.Let's look at this scripture. The heart. The Book of Colossians, chapter three, verses one and two.If then you've been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. Well, that right there sums it up, doesn't it?Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. See, this verse is our compass. It's our compass for our ultimate focus. Are our minds consumed by this endless stream of earthly news?There's plenty of it out there. Hey, 24 hours a day, seven days a week, from hundreds and thousands of channels. Is that Consuming our minds. How about that online drama?Those arguments that people have on social media? You did. Who cares? Maybe even something more sinister. How about those digital comparisons? Or that latest fleeting trend?Is that where we're consuming our minds? That endless stream of earthly news, online drama, digital comparisons, that latest trend? You got to be a part of this trend, Ralph.You don't want to miss it. Or on the other hand, are we intentionally directing our thoughts? Are we intentionally directing our attention?Are we intentionally directing our digital energy towards it? Things that truly matter. Eternal things, Spiritual things, Heavenly things. I'm going to say something very bold.The digital world often pulls our minds downward. It pulls it down constantly reminding us of earthly things. But friend, God calls us to look up. Stop looking down. He calls.Think about the very nature of what you're doing. You're looking down at your phone, you're looking down at your computer. But God calls us to look up, to think higher, to set our minds on Christ.See, here's the stark, sobering difference between what culture often pushes and what God's word truly calls us to. It's a choice that we make every single day, every time we pick up our device. See, culture's way that digital facade says this.The world promises instant connection, effortless relationships, a constant stream of entertainment, a curated perfect identities to highlight real.I call subtly encourages to live much of our lives through screens presenting this perfect version of ourselves, desperately seeking validation through those likes and those shares. And I got this many followers, Ralph, and counts and all those things.And yes, it's about broad but shallow connections built on fleeting interactions and often driven by powerful algorithms designed to keep us scrolling, consuming and comparison. It is an addiction. And this path may seem convenient. It leads to comparison. Think about the last time you were scrolling.Were you comparing yourself to what you were seeing? It leads to anxiety, it leads to fear, it leads to resentment. It leads to all of those things.Superficiality, now there's a big word, but it leads to it. And a deep, aching loneliness. Besides being hyperconnected, it makes us feel like we're in the know. Hey, we're in the know.We're part of a huge popular crowd. We're the in kids. But in the end, it can keep us distant from what truly matters in our soul and our real life relationships.See, that digital world values quantity over quality. Think about what I just said. Quantity. The number of people, the number of followers, the number of likes, shares, whatever those things are.But not about quality, not about the depth of those relationships. It values performance over Authenticity hits the highlight reel. Wow, look at that family. They're on a vacation. Look at them all smiling.So not telling you that they're growing in the debt. A debt they won't pay off for years. And see, that's that value of performance over authenticity. There's nothing authentic about that.And the truly sinister thing, instant gratification over lasting depth. See, the digital world pushes us to become actors on a stage. And that's what we are, we're actors. Look at this profile. Hey, look at this profile.Look at my YouTube thing. Look at my. You, you got it. You're just an actor. You're on a stage, you're putting on a show.You're not being authentic, you're not being vulnerable individuals. So that's the world's way. Let's look at God's way. I'm talking about real connection.If you've been listening today, you know what I'm getting ready to say. See, the Bible calls us to authentic, deep life giving community. And here's something you need to hear today. Meaningful relationships demand time.They demand effort, they demand vulnerability. And here's the most important part. They demand intentional presence.It's about truly meeting together in person, face to face, arm to arm, hug to hug, eye to eye. It's about bearing another's burdens. And listen, that's messy. I get it. It's not pretty. It's not everybody smiling.Sometimes you're going to have to deliver truth with love. You're going to make someone cry, you're going to cry yourself, you're going to cry on that shoulder.It's looking out for others interests before your own and actively avoiding self imposed isolation. See, the digital world is actively self imposed isolation. You don't do it with other people, you do it by yourself. But biblical connection is raw.It's real. It's sometimes uncomfortable. Yes, it's uncomfortable. It's rarely glamorous.It's standing in that hospital when your friend's mother is breathing her last breath. It's standing there when someone needs a shoulder to cry on. Or maybe you're the one that needs to cry on someone's shoulder.But that provides true belonging, deep support, genuine accountability. And that right there is lasting soul satisfying joy. Because that's where real life happens. Not online, not on some nonsense TikTok, whatever it is.See that's in this true relationship. That's where faith is truly lived out. The Bible talks about sharpening iron. Well that's where we sharpen each other. We pray for one Another.And we experience the love of Christ in tangible ways and see the Bible's way, the faith way. It values depth over breadth. It's not about how many, but it's about that depth. And it values humility over performance. It's not about performance.It's about being humble, being willing and vulnerable enough to say that, man, I made a mistake. Friend, I need you. I need your shoulder to cry on. I need you to give me truth in love. And it values selfless love over self promotion.Hey, this isn't about self promotion. It invites us to be truly known. Real relationships, real biblical connection is about being truly known, truly loved and truly connected.See the digital divide. It wants you to believe that a virtual hug is enough. Oh, look, this is a virtual hug. I gave you a little emoji.It wants you to believe that that follower count equals your worth. Hey, if I don't have any followers, then I must be worthless. Or that endless scroll. Listen, how many times do we see advertisement?I'm sitting there in bed, I'm scrolling. I'm sitting on the couch like I'm scrolling. I want you to believe that that's real rest. That's not real rest.This digital, it's pulling you in, it's sucking you in. It's addicting you. It wants your attention, it wants your precious time. And often, many times, here's the sinister part. It wants your money.And you might be saying, Ralph, how's that? Well, it creates wants you didn't even know you had. You're seeing stuff. Oh, I didn't realize I didn't have that. I need that.It fuels a discontentment that leads to spending, it leads to overspending. And that discontentment is. But let's contrast it.But God's truth invites you to step into real, tangible, life transforming relationships that build you up. They build you up. They bear your burdens. And those relationships powerfully reflect the very love of Christ to a world desperately searching for it.The world is desperately searching for the love of Christ. Now, I want to just say a couple things here. I want to be clear about this. I'm not saying that technology is evil. Not at all.I'm not saying that you should abandon all digital tools and run to some remote cabin in the woods. Not at all. Listen, I'm using technology right now to reach you at this very moment. Technology is a gift.It's a powerful tool that can be used for immense good, for spreading the gospel. Hey, people are hearing the gospel because of technology that would never have been able to hear it.It's great for connecting with distant loved ones, for learning, for business, for finding vital information. But like any powerful tool, any powerful tool, if we let it master us instead of us mastering it. Think of the carpenter with the hammer.When a carpenter uses a hammer correctly, when the carpenter masters, builds beautiful things. But if we don't master that hammer, it can destroy things, it can destroy relationships.And that digital ward, if we allow it to dictate our rhythms, if we allow it to dictate our thoughts, and if we allow it to dictate our worth, it's going to profoundly lead us away from God's best for our lives. And yes, this includes our financial lives.Those digital temptations can often fuel unwise spending or constant distraction that leads to neglect of financial planning and education.So now I want to ask you, my friend, how do we actually live out this liberating truth in a world that's constantly buzzing with digital noise and relentlessly pulling for our attention? It's sucking us in like a massive, a massive magnet.How do we find that unshakable hope and take faithful action when our screens seem to pull us away from real life and real priorities?I want to give you some concrete, actionable steps that you can take today, both for your digital habits, for your faith and your finances, to help you bridge this digital divide and build true, lasting life giving connections. You ready? Here's the first thing I'm going to encourage you to do. Implement digital sabbaths or set clear, non negotiable boundaries.See, this is about reclaiming your most valuable resources. What did the Bible say? Your most valuable resource is your time and your focus. So here's what I'm going to challenge you to do.Choose a specific block of time, maybe each day, maybe the first hour of your morning or the hour before bed. And completely unplug from non essential screens, completely disconnect from even better. I encourage you to do this.Dedicate a block of time once a week, perhaps maybe on Sunday afternoons, to be completely offline. Just leave the phones, turn the computers off, set the tablets aside.This means no social media, no endless death scrolls, no recreational Internet use, no streaming. Put your phone on airplane mode or literally put it in another room.Might be saying, Ralph, why think about what God did when he designed the Sabbath? The Sabbath was designed for physical and spiritual rest.But we're living in a time right now where we desperately need digital rest for our mental clarity. We need it for our emotional peace, and yes, we need it for our spiritual health. Because when we do this.It creates essential space for quiet reflection, for deep prayer, for real connection with your family and friends, and for truly hearing God without constant interruption and distraction. I think we're so addicted to technology and to that digital world that we've lost being able to hear God speaking to us.And by doing this, it breaks that addictive cycle. Listen, the digital world is addicting. I'm addicted. I bet right now in a lot of ways you're addicted.And by breaking that cycle, by doing this digital Sabbath, it helps you remember who's really in charge. You know who's really in charge. You are. You have the capacity to do this. You're guided by God, not by your device or its endless notifications.And that will reclaim your inner peace. Remember, I said start small, so start small. If a whole day feels too much, just try 30 minutes before bed, say, hey, you know what?For the next week, 30 minutes before bed, I'm turning it all off. All non essential notifications for a few hours while I focus on my family. Maybe I focus on a hobby that I enjoy. Maybe I read the Bible.It's important. And maybe in your family create some no phone zones in your home that are sacred places.I know a lot of people do that at the dining room table during meals they got to get set aside. Or maybe bedrooms. Hey, it's off limits. When our kids were young, no phones in the bedrooms.Now you got to communicate that to your family, to your friends, so they understand, hey, I'm intentionally offline. If somebody thinks they're going to text you 8 o' clock at night, you say to them, hey, I'm in my Sabbath.At that point, if it's earth shattering, life saving, call me a couple times, I'll pick it up. But I really encourage you to do that. Maybe use some app timers or delete those apps.Maybe just delete them for a season, but just get done with them for a while. So that's the first thing. I'm going to encourage you some digital Sabbath time, but I want you to replace that with something else.I want you to intentionally invest in face to face meaningful community. This is where it gets a little bit harder.See, it's somewhat easier to turn this stuff off, to set it aside, turn off the screens and all that kind of stuff. But here's where it gets a little more difficult.I think you really need to actively seek out and prioritize in person relationships that build you up. See, a lot of people think, well, how does that help me? It builds you up Building those in person relationships will help you.And this is bigger than it. Hey, Joe, I saw you in the hallway. Or hey, throw the hand up to the neighbor. Prioritize consistent attendance.Maybe that's attendance at your church or at Bible study or maybe that's in your local community. I'm going to encourage you, join a Bible study group, maybe join a prayer group or a small discipleship program.And then just schedule intentional focused time for a coffee or a meal with a friend where you put your phones away. Stop, this annoys me. You go out to lunch with somebody, you go out for a coffee and the two of you just sitting.My wife and I go out to dinner and we look around the other tables and you got two parties, both of them are looking down, man. We talk about looking down, looking down in their phones and not communicating at all. I'm like, why don't you just stay at home and order takeout?Put that stuff away. Where real conversations can happen. Here's why.Because real life, present relationships are where true burden bearing, genuine encouragement, deep discipleship and authentic love truly happen. They don't happen in a digital world. Not, oh, I liked your post. I gave you a cute emoji. Oh, here's a kimoji hug. Doesn't work.And see, that's how God designed us to connect. That's how God designed us to grow. And that's how God designed us to support each other.Because that's the messy, that's the not pretty, that's not the highlight reel, but that's the beautiful reality of life in those relationships. That's where your faith is truly lived out, where you are sharpened iron. Sharpened iron, the Bible says.And that's where you will experience the love of Christ in true, tangible ways.Because at the end of your time, you're not going to remember those digital death scrolls, you're not going to remember those likes and shares and all that, but you will remember these things. These are the treasures in heaven that will last. So you might be saying, Ralph, how do I do that?Well, I'm going to tell you right now, make a conscious decision. Instead of endlessly scrolling through your contact list, here's what I'm gonna tell you to do.Find two or three people that you generally wanna invest in this month. Send them a personal text.Hey, even better than that, send them a handwritten letter, Give them a call, invite them for coffee, maybe, hey, let's go have a meal together. Let's go for a walk. And maybe you gotta be the one who initiates because remember, these other folks are addicted too.Maybe you gotta be the one that initiates this. And yes, at first it might feel a little uncomfortable. They might be like, why are you calling me? We usually chat on Facebook or we.We send each other Instagrams. I show you my highlight. Real. So yes, it might feel a little uncomfortable. It might feel a little awkward at first.Or maybe volunteer for a ministry at your church that puts you in direct contact with others, like a soup kitchen ministry or something where you're going to work with the shut ins and then show up consistently. Put it on the calendar, make it a consistent agreement with yourself, even when you don't feel like it. Even when you don't feel it.Because knowing that God works through these connections, God works through those connections. So let's talk about bridging that gap. I mentioned a little while ago, I was going to talk about screen time's hidden financial impact.Maybe like, Ralph, man, you have gone off on a tangent at this point. But I want. Just bear with me for a few more minutes. I want you to take an honest, no judgment look at your screen habits.Again, no judgment here, just honest assessment of where you are. Ask yourself, this is excessive online time leading to impulse online shopping. Hey, I deal with this every day in my practice.I see people who are addicted to those late night Amazon sessions that happen almost on autopilot. I was just sitting there scrolling, oh, I saw these shoes that Sally has. I got to get those shoes. Or, man, Joe's got the coolest Blackstone Griddle.I got to have that. Or maybe at the end you realize, I can't afford to do this and you just feel absolutely discontented. Or maybe, hey, you know what?I got to get that latest streaming service. I get those apps that everybody's got them, Ralph, I paid for them. But you don't actually use them. See, here's the thing that you got to understand.The digital world is highly curated. It's fake, it's a performance, and it's designed to encourage your spending.These algorithms, these sites that you go visit, they're learning your desires.And if you're honest with yourself, you go shopping for something, next thing you know, you're looking at your Facebook feed and, wow, that's what I was just shopping for. Of course it is. The algorithms are learning your desires and. And they're presenting them to you constantly.And that's why I say mindless scrolling quickly leads to mindless spending. And if you're comparing your life to others, they're perfect.Online highlights that drives financial envy and that irresistible urge to keep up with things that you just simply cannot afford. When I look at people's budgets, that's a hidden link in many budgets that drains your hard earned money. So how do you break that habit?Well, one of the things you can do is use your phone's built in screen time tracker or maybe a third party app that gets a realistic picture of your usage. And then be honest with yourself. Identify the online habits that lead to unplanned spending. Set some clear limits on shopping apps or on browse time.One thing that somebody told me about not too long ago was a digital fast from all online shopping for a week or even a month. And then prayerfully redirect any money saved from those impulsive online purchases towards your God first budget categories.Maybe increase your giving to ministries, boost that emergency fund, or aggressively pay down that debt that's been strangling you. See, this is where you can turn a potential weakness into a financial strength for God's glory.And I'm going to encourage you right now to protect your focus from digital distraction. You got to recognize how easily digital notifications and constant connectivity can pull you away from important tasks. They do. They pull you away.Even the vital work of managing your money and planning for your financial future.Things I talk about on my daily financial show is to dedicate focused times for financial review, for budgeting, for learning about wise investments, or maybe just prayerfully seeking God's wisdom for your resources without any digital interruptions. Because here's the truth. True financial stewardship demands focused attention.And see, it's incredibly difficult to make wise financial choices to spend, to track your spending or to plan for the future when your mind is constantly pulled in different directions by those pings, those alerts, those emails, a siren song of social media and that distraction. If we're being honest, it leads to neglect and neglect leads to financial stress.So again, just like that digital Sabbath, I'm going to encourage you. Schedule specific non negotiable blocks in your week for financial tasks. Maybe a budget review hour or investment learning time.And when you're doing this, turn off all the notifications, close the unnecessary tabs on your computer, don't let yourself get distracted, put your phone in another room. Treat that like a sacred focused appointment with your future and with God's provision.And if you do this, this discipline will not only improve your financial health, but also significantly reduce your overall stress and anxiety. And finally, use technology as a tool for good, not a master for God's kingdom. This is where we're going to flip the script a little bit.So instead of letting technology consume you or dictate your life, be intentional about proactively using it as a powerful tool to strengthen your faith because it can be used for that, to wisely manage your resources and truly impact the world for Christ. Because here's the truth. Technology itself is not good nor bad. It's neutral.But how we choose to use it, that's what determines the impact on our souls and in our world. You have the power. We have the power through God's grace to redeem our digital habits and to use these incredible platforms for his glory.One of the ways you can do that is there's some great Bible apps for daily devotionals or in depth study. Maybe you can find podcasts like mine, Christian Financial education podcast or channels just like this one. I've got a daily show.It's called Financially Confident Christian. I'll have a link in the show Notes, where I just share one thing every day about how to break the cycle of financial shame with confidence.We talked about those video calls. We talked about those things. Well, you can use those. You can use those for intentional deep connection with distant family or friends.They're great tools for that. If they're used correctly, you can use productivity apps to manage your task and finances more efficiently.I talked about this a little while ago with our church. You can use online giving platforms to easily, consistently support your church or ministries.But be discerning, be wise, but wholeheartedly embrace the good that technology can offer when it's used in the divine purpose and under God's control. My dear friend, the digital divide is a real and growing challenge in our world. Look around us. It's surrounding us. And I want you to hear me on this.It is trying to relentlessly isolate us. It's trying to distract us. And it's feeding our anxieties with this false sense of connection and fulfillment.But in the end, all it's doing is draining us. It's draining us financially, it's draining us emotionally, and it's draining us spiritually.But the reason I do this show, the reason I launched this new show, compare it to God's truth. See, God's truth calls us to something infinitely richer, so much profoundly deeper and wonderfully more satisfying.He calls us to real presence, presence with him, and more importantly than that, presence with each other. See, you're absolutely not alone in feeling this pressure, my friend.And I truly believe that God sees your desire for true connection and genuine peace. And he offers you a peace that comes from knowing him intimately and belonging to his authentic loving community.He offers a peace that isn't dependent on signal strength or follower counts or likes or shares. Let's choose that today. Let's choose that together to courageously bridge this divide.Let's choose genuine, messy life giving connection over digital facades.Let's choose intentionality over endless scrolling, knowing that our truest joy, our truest joy, our deepest security and our most fulfilling purpose are found in being truly present with God and with real flesh and blood people who he's placed in our lives. This is where the real life is lived.And as we wrap up today, friend, I just want to share something even more important than managing our digital lives or finding true connection. It's the deepest connection of all and that's a relationship with God Himself, the One who created you. The one who loves you beyond measure.If you've been listening today, perhaps you're feeling that heavy weight of the world, feeling that emptiness we talked about, that deep inside emptiness that no amount of online friends or perfect pictures that highlight real can truly ever fill. And maybe, just maybe, your heart's been gently nudged to realize that the only real lasting security and peace comes from God Himself.And right now, maybe you've never truly given your whole life to Jesus Christ. You might have heard about him perhaps, but haven't taken that step of trusting him completely.But I just want to tell you, he's the one that beats sin. He's the one that beat death. And yes, he beat the worries and loneliness of this world. He already conquered that digital divide.And he offers you not just good advice for life, hey, that would be. We could stop right there, that'd be enough. But eternal life and a relationship with God that absolutely nothing can shake or steal.Friend, if you're feeling that gentle push, that stern in your spirit right now, if your heart is saying yes, I want to invite you to pray this simple prayer with me now. Right, right now, from the deepest part of your heart. Just say this. Dear Heavenly Father, I know I'm a sinner and I truly need your forgiveness.I believe with all my heart that Jesus Christ is your son. I believe that he died on the cross for my sins and that you powerfully raised him from the dead.And Lord, I just confess my sins to you right now and I humbly ask you to come and take I give my life to you today completely. I choose to follow you Jesus, as my Lord and Savior, starting now and forever.Lord, I just thank you for your amazing love and for the precious gift of eternal life. Amen. If you prayed that prayer or even if you're just thinking about it, please know friend, that heaven is celebrating your decision right now.You are now a love child of God and your real wealth, your real wealth is saved with him forever. And I just want to encourage you to share this decision with a trusted Christian friend.Maybe you know a pastor or you can just reach out to us at Ask Ralph Media. We would love to hear from you and help you figure out your next steps in faith.You can reach me directly by going to truthunveiledwithralph.com/decision. I'll have that in the show notes.And I want to encourage you find a good Bible believing church because that's so super important for you to grow in Christ. And I just want to thank you right now for joining me on this second episode of Truth Unveiled with Ralph.And I just want to ask that God would richly bless you, my dear friend, as you live for him in every part of your life. And I just pray that you'll find peace and find out how he takes care of you in Him.And I just want to encourage you to join me next week as we keep unveiling God's truth in a world full of questions. And until then, I just want to encourage you walk in faith, learn with wisdom and live financially confident in Christ. God bless you.